Jessica Whalley’s powerful new book, The Autistic Mom, sheds light on her deeply personal journey as an autistic and ADHD mother raising a nonverbal autistic son. This candid, compelling book is a must-read for parents of neurodivergent children, adults navigating their own neurodivergence, and anyone interested in understanding autism and ADHD more deeply.
In The Autistic Mom, Whalley offers an unflinchingly honest account of her life, navigating motherhood while facing her own undiagnosed autism and ADHD – until receiving her diagnosis at age 38. Her story resonates with parents and caregivers alike and provides invaluable insight for those who may be struggling with their own neurodivergence or are still waiting for a diagnosis.

The Autistic Mom isn’t just a memoir—it’s an essential guide for those raising neurodivergent children, particularly women, who are often overlooked when it comes to ADHD and autism diagnoses. Studies show that 50–75% of women with ADHD in the UK are undiagnosed, a statistic that makes Jessica’s story all the more vital for many readers. Her raw and vulnerable writing will offer a sense of validation, solidarity, and hope for women, parents, and families everywhere.
“Reading The Autistic Mom is like having a heart-to-heart conversation with someone who truly gets it,” says one reader. “Jessica’s words are helping me understand my child—and myself—better than I ever thought possible.”
Jessica’s exploration and decision to pursue assessment for herself and her commitment to supporting her son in every way possible will strike a chord with anyone who’s ever felt overwhelmed by the complexities of neurodivergence. With increasing pressure on the UK government to better support autistic children and adults, The Autistic Mom arrives at a crucial moment in the conversation surrounding neurodivergence.
The Autistic Mom is not just a personal story; it’s a practical guide brimming with advice for parents and caregivers who need support. The book combines Jessica’s journey with tips on navigating the world of autism and ADHD, positive strategies for coping with challenges, and inspiration for those who need a lifeline as they care for their children or themselves.
The Autistic Mom is available to purchase in paperback priced £13.99 on Amazon HERE
Book synopsis:
The Autistic Mom recounts Jessica Whalley’s experience as an autistic mother raising a nonverbal autistic child while grappling with her own undiagnosed autism and ADHD. After her son’s diagnosis at age three, Jessica immersed herself in learning everything she could to support him. However the emotional and mental toll of constantly advocating for her child eventually led Jessica to seek a diagnosis for herself. At 38, she was formally diagnosed with autism and ADHD, a revelation that would change the course of her life.
In her book, Jessica reflects on her early years, growing up in a world that didn’t understand her neurodivergence and the process of receiving her own diagnosis as an adult. The book offers invaluable advice for parents of neurodivergent children and adults navigating similar challenges, blending personal narrative with practical guidance for managing mental health, embracing neurodivergence, and fostering understanding.
Karen Woodham is the founder and owner of the Blazing Minds. She is also a Cinema reviewer and works with RealD 3D reviewing the latest 3D releases and IMAX, she has also had several articles published in various publications including the first edition of SFW Magazine. In 2015 she became an Award Winning Blogger and also has her website listed as one of the UK’s Top 10 Film Blogs.














